Family 197item I am 41 years man with 3 son and wife and parent living in India. Since last 3 year facing financial issue there is no works for me; and whatever work starts it does not work. I pray salat and recite Quran but it seems like it is not benefiting me as I am not making as it has to do. Please suggestion about this query how to tackle financial issue in family I am going in minus and do not understand. I believe and hope on Allah and Ahlulbayt but still my mind confuse to accept hard things. I am in very difficult need of financial to service family and parent. Please guide me... I am a Muslim girl and live in Germany. With 13 years I have become more and more religious, alhamdulillah. I was born in a Muslim Sunni family, but I soon discovered the path of AhlulBayt (a. s) and I follow the School of Imam Jaa'far as-Sadiq (a. s). There were a lot of problems with my family because of my love to the path of Ahl-ul-Bayt (a. s). I try to avoid as much as I can any problems in discussions related to Islamic Schools, or Sunni and Shia discussions. In this case, I do not say, that "I am a Shia", because of the problems and because of my deep respect towards the Ahl-ul-Bayt (a. s). It is my goal to be a "Muminah and a Follower of Ahl-ul-Bayt (a.)". And there are a lot of people with whom I cannot talk about the different schools because of their hatred and ignorance, and some of them make Fitna in that cases, so I do not say to the majority which school I follow (only to some who I trust). Some brothers and sisters said to me, that I should clearly say to my family and to others, that I am a Shia. Is my action haram, makruh or allowed? Note, that my family is not really religious. In consequences, that there are also in these cases (such as wearing Hijab and adopting the Islamic rules) some problems. What should I do? Imam Khomeini (r.) said: "The time of Taqqiyah is over". How should we have to understand this statement, in this time? My mother died an hour after my birth; my aunt took care of me. This woman has no son. What are my duties towards her? If my parents express conflicting views about the manner of handling an issue which are both permissible in the eyes of Islam, whom should I listen to? I know that Sile Rehem with relatives is very important in Islam and i have contacted my relatives after a long time who are abroad but they are not responsive, this thing have hurt me very much. So should i not contact them further and leave them. I am really worried. 2 and half years ago I got married to a mentally upset person, he tortured me for 1 and half year.I was with him in Dubai then I came to my dad’s place UK and started studying, when I came to my dad’s place I was very depressed and mentally upset because of his torture,then I started to recover now I am back to normal.It’s been a year without him. I really don’t want to go back to him,but as I was on student visa so I extended my visa again but UK border agency refused my visa due to silly reason, I am sure my parents will force me to go back to him, my mom is in Pakistan, she don’t want me to come and stay with her because she cares more about people than their kids, she is more concerned about her respect in society than me been tortured.She asked me to go back to him as my visa is refused and don’t come to Pakistan.I really don’t want to go.Idon’t know what to do,I was tensed,I have no solution.I prayed to Allah but still nothing is happening, please tell me any wazifa. What shall I do, that my problem should be solved right now? I have no other solution than suicide but I know its haram I will never do. But I am in major problem no one understand me, I am dying from inside.I have no one to listen to me. My family is been mean to me, they all are busy in their lives.I am 25 years old girl,, I read 5 times namaz (prayer) as well. Why does not the Holy Qur’an give strong emphasis to support father-in-law and mother-in-law? Because a married woman will never be able to support her father and mother if her husband does not like it. What is the best thing for increasing one’s economic status and attracting Allah’s ‘Barakat’ (blessings) in one’s business and livelihood? Shall we tell our husbands about our past? If a girl is non-virgin but she has repented and going to get married does she need to tell her husband that? Or she should hide from him? What does Allah says about this? How to protect 2, 5 and 7 years child who does not have capability to understand that not to eat foods made by kafirs (unbelievers) as they goes school and tuitions where we are not with them? Give appropriate method to bring up child perfect manner as i don’t want let to eat a single thing in any way to my child. My parents are Hindu, and they do not know that I have converted. There have been several times where I have had to lie to them while not eating my mother’s food, while praying, while fasting, while going to the Imam bargah, or going and meeting my Mutah husband they do not know about him either, the only problem is because he’s Muslim, but they prefer me doing haram and having any non-Muslim boyfriend, but do not want me to get married for many years he is a religious person and we hope to Insha’Allah marry with each other we had to do mutah to avoid any haram.My question is, what are these lies considered to be? All of these were to follow the rules of Allah (swt). I cannot tell them about my conversion till I’m independent. They think I’m still very young and don’t understand anything. I live with them in a Muslim country, so my father still has all rights over me. I’m in taqiyyah. I’m nearly 21 years old. Please help can I say these lies? There is no other way for me to do any of the above. I am in a really big trouble. I am going through really tough times these days and do not see any ray of hope. I have intense problems in the relation with my mother and other family members as well. Talking to them to seek a way out is no option. I am greatly depressed. I have prayed to Allah many times that I may become successful in pleasing my mother. But she goes off with me even at my minor mistakes which depress me greatly. I have tried my level best to keep up with her expectations so as to not to go against Allahs obligations. But it fails to happen. My mother says that I have hurt her so much that I will never be happy. But I really did not do anything as such. Not purposefully at least.I aim to give up trying and am seeking help of some religious scholar so as to guide me. I really cannot try more than what I had. I cry every day and am fed up with the problems in my life. I do not know why do they occur even when I am trying my best to follow the path of Sabr (tolerance) and self-control. I really wish to end my life, but also cannot do this as it is a grave sin.Please help me. This may be my last hope. I want to ask a question about my life. I married a Sunni non-sayyed cousin because he showed interest in Shia and was brought up in Shia atmosphere for few years and now 3 years after marriage he is not allowing me to attend majalis (religious ceremonies) or madarsa (school) earlier he used to allow occasionally 1 year ago he fell from 3rd floor and became paralyzed waist down so now he is saying he is angry with Allahnauzubillah for putting him in a situation like this and he is being disrespectful towards Aimma Tahereen. I’m cursing myself for marrying such an ignorant man he is also using abusive language against me and my family and calling us Sayyed Shia nasle haraam. I’m just keeping quiet because of his condition but now Idon’t want to stay because of this behavior this is the detail to the question I had earlier asked what should I do? CanI ask him to remarry some other woman and divorce me as I also don’t want to leave him in this condition?Or should I keep suffering like this but I want to go to majlis and madarsa. If any person’s wife does not listen his husband as well as his husband parent, she does work accordingly to her style and no intention of learning any Islamic lesson, even she is interest any kind of her responsibility. She is having 5 years old son .please advise what does Islam says about this kind of women. I am a convert living with my Hindu parents. They do not know that I have converted, and would be very upset once they find out. I cannot live separately from them for a few more years atleast. I haven’t eaten the food cooked by my mother for the past 1.5 years I told her I want to do it myself because of hygiene, but now she is insisting, and she is emotionally very hurt. She promises me that she will make sure everything is clean, but just let her make food for her daughter. In my situation, is it allowed to eat the food she cooks? Her wet hands HAVE touched the food, but it will ruin my relationship with her if I don’t eat it. 123456789