I recently broke up with my non-Muslim girlfriend because she did not want to observe the basic Islamic Modesty regarding dress (I am not talking about headscarf). I wanted her to wear long-sleeve shirts and pants, but she refused, saying it would be too much for her, especially in the summer. She did not like my interference in her way of life. She had agreed to nominally convert to Islam after marriage, but was finding it difficult to understand why she should change her lifestyle to bring it closer to an Islamic one. Please let me know if I should make any efforts to patch up with her, hoping that she may change sometime in the future (although there is always the chance that she may not change).

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Allah says in the Quran "Invite all to the way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious." (16:125). Keep talking to her if there is any hope of improving her knowledge about Islam. Help her to become more modest and understanding about Islam.



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