As you know, youthfulness is a great power that is full of vigor and activity. If we do not use it in a constructive way, it will explode to destroy what others have constructed of advantageous establishments. Most of us live idly and sleep more than required. We go out of our homes to only waste time in trivial things or boyish adventures. I hope that you can explain to us the correct way to use this great power in a manner that will please Allah and will benefit people, our society, and ourselves.

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You know that when a driver loses control of his car, he throws himself and others into a bloody disaster. Do you know what prevents him from this disaster? They are his knowledge of the art of driving and his will. Two things: one is knowledge and the other is will. The same can be said about a young man who puts himself in a situation without knowledge or will. He will involve himself in a disaster the end of which is failure and fruitlessness. Physical power and activeness is a Divine blessing that Allah has given to man in his youth to help him build the basis for his future ease, for a day when his power will weaken, his activeness will disappear, and diseases will attack him, and then the knowledge, wealth, position, family, friends and followers he has spared from his youth will benefit him. You ask how to make use of the blessings of youth. It is a good and important question regarding building one’s future. The answers, as we said, are useful knowledge and will. The first is a light that illuminates one’s way and the other is a force that controls one’s power and prevents it from deviation and the occurrence of disasters. The youth are in need of peace and not violence. This is the best fruit (patience) and patience is the best fruit of knowledge. Imam Ali (a.s.) has said, ‘Good patience is a proof of abundant knowledge [1].’ The youth have to seek out knowledge and sciences that will benefit them. They should not throw themselves into the laps of bad people from this material life because then they would become slaves in the circle of untruth. Imam as-Sadiq (a.s.) says, ‘I do not like (to see) a young man from you unless he is in one of two sates: either a teacher or a learner. If he does not do so, he wastes; if he wastes, he loses; if he loses, he is sinful; and if he is sinful, he will be in Hell, I swear by Him Who has sent Muhammad with the truth.’ The youth should seize opportunities to learn means of developing their powers in order to establish the first bases of future success. Who are the failed people in life but those who did not learn during their youth? Then, what is the required knowledge? It is to begin learning the Islamic beliefs, the legal laws, and the moral principles. Our scholars have written very good books about these three fields which you can read or ask one of the virtuous Ulama’ to discuss, or you can attend the lectures that are held in mosques, religious centers, houses, and the like. Please, ponder on this word in which Imam Ali (a.s.) has described pious people by saying, ‘The Creator has become so great before their eyes, and therefore, everything else has become so trivial before them.’ If the youth learn the beliefs of Islam, legal laws, and morals, and reach the degree of piety in their faith, they will never pant after the material life or fight for its transient pleasures. They will never feel sorry if they miss one of its pleasures. They will never make troubles for this and that. They will never think of destruction or violence as a solution if fate deprives them of a blessing or prevents them from reaching it. Dear brother, in order to walk in this upright way, you have to do the following: 1. Know yourself well, promise yourself to be sincere in achieving happiness, and watch your fancy lest it troubles your sincerity. Nevertheless, you may fall into the trap of fancy, but in this case hasten to get out of it by repenting and asking Allah to forgive you. Then review the causes of your fall and be careful that they are not repeated. 2. Fill your mind with knowledge and true historical views! Let your first source be the Holy Qur'an, which has explained everything, and keep away from the Satan and his followers! 3. Be steadfast before difficulties and be patient in any case! 4. Open your heart to your high goal, for you have been created for Paradise! 5. Make your personality respectable and try to have positive effects on others! 6. Keep a thick curtain between you and material, reactionary, shallow, anarchic, selfish, and submissive ideas! 7. Take the Qur’anic intellect, as been interpreted by the Prophet (S), AhlulBayt (a.s.), and the virtuous Ulama’, to be the example of your intellect and conduct! 8. Read a lot about religious culture and concentrate on what you read! 9. Organize your time, order your daily tasks, and write down your appointments in your pocket notebook! 10. Trust in your own abilities and talents and complete them by cooperating with the abilities and talents of others who are like you in belief! 11. Learn how to speak appropriately with people and have influence over them! 12. Carry out the needs of whoever may ask you for help, and do not remind him of your favor to him someday! 13. Be ascetic in life! Do not wish for what there is in other people’s hands of wealth and beauty! 14. Find a job that brings lawful livelihood! 15. Hate idleness and laziness because Allah hates them, especially for the youth! 16. Take care of your physical and psychological health and do not ignore your share of amusement! 17. Get married early and always advise the youth to do so! 18. Do not stop at a certain limit in your good ambition because the way towards Paradise is open before you! 19. Be calm and plan for your future while thinking of good deeds and good rewards! 20. Do not forget the remembrance of Allah, supplication, and the love of those who have showed us the way to deliverance who are the Prophet (S) and his progeny first, and second all those who have followed them![2]


[1]Ghurar al-Hikam, vol.2 p.385. [2] Refer to the details of these titles in (The Secrets of Success in your Personality) by Ahmad al-Mulla. -------------------------- Ref: For a Better Future,200 questions and answers regarding the concerns of the youth, marriage and children, Abdul Adheem al-Muhtadi al-Bahrani, Translated byAbdullah al-Shahin , Published by: Ansariyan Publications

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